If you want to get along with someone, you need something in common. Fortunately, nibs and curds share not only an abundance of flavor, but the very source of that flavor: fermentation. Both chocolate and cheese are the result of what many affectionately call “controlled rot,” and you can’t make either without bacteria and time.

“It seems so counterintuitive, it’s not something people think to pair together,” said Megan Giller, author of Bean to Bar: America’s Craft Chocolate Revolution and judge for the International Chocolate Awards. Giller conducts private chocolate tastings and says that pairing chocolate and cheese is a frequent topic. “I’ve done so many cheese and chocolate tastings… It really can be an amazing pairing that creates this third flavor.”

Like cheese, the subtle nuance of a piece of chocolate is easiest to pick up in simple, unflavored offerings. Just as you can detect the spicy grasses grazed by a Spanish sheep or the sweet wildflowers consumed by a California goat in the cheeses made with their milk, cacao flavor varies by region and context. To pick up on these subtle distinctions, Giller recommends cleansing your palate between bites with something plain, like water or crackers.

To pair cheese with chocolate, Giller suggests leaning on a few key groupings. Her favorites include Parmigiano-Reggiano with bright, fruity, dark chocolates, Taleggio with sea salt bars, and blue cheese with just about any chocolate under 75%. Contrast is a good rule of thumb: an earthy bar with a crumbly texture may work with a juicy washed rind; salty bars complement sweet gouda styles. But commonality can also create new experiences, such as when delicate floral notes in chocolate mingle with those in Alpine cheese.

“Chocolate has high cocoa butter content, and cheese has high milk fat content, so those two just get creamier and better together,” Giller said. “Even if you have a chocolate that doesn’t have as much cocoa butter, once you combine it with cheese, that fat really allows the flavors of the chocolate to move around your mouth in different ways.”

How To Taste Chocolate

1. Look

Just looking at the bars you’ve selected will provide a lot of information. Is the chocolate shiny, or does it have white spots on it? (Shiny means it’s been tempered properly, spots mean it hasn’t.) How does the color of each bar compare to the others you’ve selected? Are they darker, redder, drier? Giller starts with the darkest bars and works her way down to milk chocolate, but says that’s a personal preference.

2. Snap

Break a piece in half and listen for a snap—another sign it’s been properly tempered. The chocolate should break cleanly; it should not bend.

3. Smell

Another reason to break off a piece is so you can smell the cut side, which will have stronger aromas. Another way to release aroma is to rub part of the chocolate so it starts to melt.

4. Bite

Put the chocolate in your mouth, chew a few times to get it melting, then let it linger on your tongue. As you do, breathe in and out to aerate the chocolate and release more aromas and flavors.

5. Repeat

Perform these steps for each chocolate. Giller recommends tasting between three and 10 bars in one tasting (she usually uses about six), or taking a break after 10 if you’re going to do more.

Photo by Nina Gallant, Styled by Sunny Ricks; Illustration by Beatriz Gutierrez 

Linni Kral

Linni Kral is a writer, editor, activist, and friend living in Brooklyn, with past lives in Boston, L.A., and Chicago. Her writing has been featured in the Atlantic & Atlas Obscura, among others. She’s happiest in the company of cows, books, and groceries.